I want my relationship to be harmonious, but when necessary I am well able to put forth my interests.Frage: I want my relationship to be harmonious, but when necessary I am well able to put forth my interests. Frage: It sometimes happens that in harmonious moments with my partner, a quarrel can break out. Frage: Sex with my partner is not as passionate as it was at the beginning of the relationship, but we are still able to enjoy it. Frage: After the initial period of passion, I often lose sexual interest in my partner. Frage: I often feel lonely in my relationship. Frage: I believe that I am quite acceptable just as I am. Frage: I often think of ending my relationship. Frage: I have trust that someone can love me with all my weaknesses as well as my strengths. Frage: Often I notice only later that someone's remark have wounded me. Frage: I would like to have more closeness and passion in my relationship. Frage: I inspect any potential partner very closely. Frage: I often worry that my partner will leave me. Frage: I'm happy to be around my partner, but I can well understand when he/she wants to do things without me. Frage: My partner often changes our plans on short notice. Frage: I've been single now for over five years. Frage: I usually prefer down-to-earth partners who can cope with life well. Frage: My relationship is characterized by a high level of reliability from both of us. Frage: I often give my work and hobbies priority in a relationship. Frage: My parents had a good marriage. Frage: I need a lot of personal space in a relationship. Frage: When we fight, my partner and I reconcile without being wounded or resentful. Frage: It has often happened that I was unable to break free from a difficult partner. Frage: I often wish that my partner would be more engaged in the relationship. Frage: It is easy for me to open up to my partner when I have problems. Frage: I give a lot of thought about how my partner feels about me and our relationship. Frage: I often don't get what I want in my relationship. Frage: After the first infatuation I often started having many doubts about my partner. Frage: I feel free and genuine around my partner. Frage: I don't like making compromises in a relationship. Frage: I ofter have feelings of guilt because I can't love my partner as much as she/he loves me. Frage: My relationship gives me a feeling of security. Frage: I put a lot of effort into being enticing and attractive to my partner. Frage: I feel 50 percent responsible for the success of a relationship. Frage: There is a good balance of give and take in my relationship. Frage: My partner often wants more closeness than I would like. Frage: My partner's expectations often tie me up in knots. Frage: I often consider the wishes of my partner (and of other people) to be more important than my own. Frage: I often find it difficult to support my own interests. Frage: If I'm honest with myself, I find that I let my partner get away with a lot of things. Frage: Sometimes I am really turned off by my partner's weaknesses. Frage: I'm annoyed when my partner makes plans, because I would rather be spontaneous. Frage: My partner and I consider each other to be equals. Frage: I would like to spend more time with my partner. Frage: After I've been on holiday with my partner, I need some time on my own. Frage: I get nervous when my partner takes a long time to answer my text messages. |