You are what you are, and that’s all that you are, and what you are is good!

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Hi, I’m Stefanie – clinical psychologist and bestselling author of more than ten books. I have my own psychotherapy practice in Germany for more than 25 years and conduct seminars about self-esteem, love, and the fear of commitment.

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Bringing out your authentic self

More than a million copies sold

The child in you

Everyone longs to be accepted and loved. Ideally, during childhood, we develop the self-confidence and sense of trust that will help us through life as adults. But the traumas that we experience in childhood also unconsciously shape and determine our entire approach to life as adults.


In The Child In You, bestselling author and psychologist Stefanie Stahl shares her proven approach for working with – and befriending – our inner child. Powerful, imaginative and practical – with clever exercises, from the three positions of perception to over-writing old memories – she shows how by renouncing our ‘shadow child’ and embracing our ‘sun child,’ we can learn to resolve conflicts, form better relationships, and find the answer to (almost) any problem.


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